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  • What is a good national Anthem, Burger Dog or Baby Shark?

    Everytime, we are out of town, for a vacation or a day out, the first song which would be played is the Burger Dog by Bluey. It had been not the case as exactly one year ago, it was the "Baby shark song. As the time went by "Shark song" became less favourable, option. But if you check youtube top 100, these baby songs are even seen more than any Justin Beiber or Selena Gomaz songs. Infact more than double the world population have seen these songs, if we consider collective views. It occured to me that it is a good idea to make one of these a national anthem. And I can give you several reasons to why. Baby Shark What is a national Anthem? The purpose of a national Anthem is to provide unity. Generally in any country there are different ethnicities. Yet to function as a selfish being, a country needs a method to unite these people. Otherwise it is doomed to faliure, just like the right hand goes aginst left in a single person. Consider any country which has gained significant development in the world. And compare this to any country which is under-developed. You will see these ethnic and cultural clashes have drained countries, not only blood but potential of their growth. Any difference, is used and exploited by selfish leaders to make themselves more powerful agianst each other. What is true for a country is true for The whole world. This is exactly the point, I was making when I wrote the article about the Universal King. As long as we are clashing in Wars against each other, there would be no overall growth. Infact although national Anthems, in traditional sense unites a country. Same national Anthem is a reason for division, when we consider the whole world. Think about you sing a National Anthem in English, where some people speak a different language. Instead feeling united, you will feel divided. Same is true for Olympic. When we hear some other national anthem is playing, we might feel distant and even sad, if it is not the one we expect to hear. What is good for a national Anthem? Burger Dog, Baby Shark vs Despecito Now we can get back to our Original question. You see a Podium ceremony where The Gold madelist is proudly standing next to the Bronze and silver. And instead of the national Anthem of Germany, Either "Burger Dog" or "Baby Shark" is played. Consider how many happy people would be there if we do that. As, there is no discrimination. I am sure the new generation of kids, would grow up and do it one day. It may be not the Burger dog or the Baby shark. But something Universal, like Despecito. Podium This little wisdom, has not limits. Some people, like Microsoft owner, the Billioneir Bill Gates, say Crypto, is just as a scam, as it is not backed by government. But I would say, just like our national Anthem Example, people have already found a solution for a Universal Currency, which is backed up by thousads of people across nations. It is not going against the "law" but, adapting a more futuristic view on how we should be functioning in a such a nondescriminating society. So, I would say, in this hypothetical future world, which is ruled by a universal king and, traded by crypto-currency, "Burger dog" is a good candidate for a Universal Anthem. Which can be sung by not only earth animals but also by inhabitants of Mars. So, what do you think is the Good candidate from these? Or have you written a better song?

  • How to deal with Unknown.

    Outline Three ways. Educate yourself Associate with some known People, hire them. Experiment with yourself. How to deal with unknown. Previously I have written an article about, seen and unseen. And there I argued the unseen is always bigger in life . But recently I noticed this is true for other things as well. As an example. Un smelled things are bigger than what you have smelled in life. Untasted stuff is bigger than what you have tasted so far. What you did not learn in your life is always far bigger than what you have experienced and learnt. Somehow our ego tends to make us believe, that we are the great "knower". But if you sit on a bench and think about it for a while, you may understand the truth is far from this. If every knowledge in the universe is a beach, we just know things smaller than a grain of sand. the question is universe has zero interest in what you know. Infact, it doesn't care about the knowledge that we have. It will function as it has been before, throwing us in chaos after chaos in life. Although this is an observation, if you would really like to master your life, you should be prepared to tackle these unknown Knowlege. More you know about things you do not know, more you will be able to achieve what you yearn for in this life. Let it be money, power, or any stupid Zero value thing . But it is possible. So, here in this article I am going to show you the practical ways to tackle the unknown knowledge and show them in order and difficulty. Let's dive deep into How to deal with Unknown. Experiment Number 3 - Experimentation. Experimentation is the way of science to tackle the unknown. We manipulate the reasons, observe the outcomes over time and see, whether it has the expected results. To prove or disprove our hypothesis. You may or may not be familiar with formal process of the scientific method. But, in life everyone has to experiment on their own life. This is why Grandpa, without dementia, can make better decision than a teenager. As he has, experimented more, as he has been there for a longer period of time. If you do not know by now, mindfulness is the way of experimentation of your own thoughts, and mind . Hence, why I write about it a lot in my blog. Let's stop there. Comparatively, this is difficult and need time. But I would say if you wanted to understand life it is essential to experiment. Number 2 - Reading books/ learning from others. Second way to tackle unknown is to read about it. Often previous people who has come across same problems have written exactly what they went through. We just have to access this knowledge, via, web, the library, or AI tools. Even YouTube is good if you are clever. As an example, recently I started reading about Co-operate finance, and suddenly, my YouTube feed was bombarded with financial lectures, by Great professors around the world. Free of charge. So, this is a great advantage for us for being in the era of abundance. Let's stop complaining about what we do not have, and smart using what we have. This method unfortunately takes time, and like anything which is time dependent, has its own limits. There is a limit, to how many books you can read per day. There is a limit to how much time you can allocate learning a new skill. Specially if you are reading this after 30, your job and family might be your priority than any book you are going to read. Knowledge Number 1- Getting help from domain experts. This is where you can be smart. If you are too lazy to read a book, or experiment yourself, you should definitely think about hiring someone, who had spent their life doing exactly that. Consider what it means. If you cannot allocate time to do an audit, by yourself, you can hire an Accountant. If you do not how to draw, you hire an artist. If you cannot make a website or a blog, you can hire a IT professional. And I greatly recommend you doing this, as you have only 24 hours to reach any target, and more people you hire faster you can reach any goal. It is the smart way of doing things. But there is a flow. Whenever we hire someone else, we cannot expect them to work for us, in the same enthusiasm, like ourselves. They have their own selfish agendas. That is the rule of nature. Everyone struggles to survive, even at the doom of others. So, the best way to do that is, find the one who's selfish needs align with yours. So, you both become unstoppable in per suing life. Thank you for reading.

  • How to be a bestseller Author

    I have written a book. Approximately 2 years ago. And it was an utter failure. It was an eBook, sold in amazon for 7 pounds but it did not sell. I was wondering, it is not valuable, experience of a lifetime to be written on paper. But recently I noticed what was the problem. I did Zero promotion, did not do any online presence, did not talk with any salesperson. Mediocre results for Mediocre effort. Mark Manson, Best "Seller" Recently I came across a story where a writer faced a similar problem. A novice writer did his first novel and wanted to be successful. With hopes, he spent whatever from his pocket to print his book and to make it a successful one. Yet, he did not find success, he did not make any sale. And he seeks advice from a "best seller author" from NYK. Straight away this author showed him an introductory sales course. Now the novice had questions. He asked "Hey, I am supposed to be a famous writer, why should I be a salesperson?" And the second author far away in his game replied, "Listen my friend, I am going to show you to become the "Best-selling author" Not the best author. Do you see the difference. Selling a book is part of the art. It is different but I would say the most important part of the "Writing career" As a book which is not sold would not give you any profit, no matter how good the material in it is. It made me realize, what I have been doing wrong, expecting sales with 0 effort in marketing. One thing I should have done is enroll in a sales course rather than start writing books. Otherwise, hire someone to work for me on that end. After all, any author would be happy only when they have fans, reaching out to give a comment on their work. Luckily for me, I started a blog in parallel to the eBook. Although it took years, made me realize, even a blog, to be able to reach some actual people, we need to put massive Effort. Hours and hours of endless optimization of the articles. So, anyone who likes to become an author, I have a warning, "Be good at marketing first". And for that end I have written plenty of "Philosophy" for better experience in sales. Shop. A good place to start. How to be a bestseller, Author. You can start by learning " What is a shop ." or " How to build a skyscraper " More even you can deep dive into philosophy of Values , how they are generated. In human consciousness each and every passing second. I think learning it is fundamental to be "rich" in lay terms. Or to be wise in more mature terms. So, becoming a Bestseller Author, doesn't say anything about your writing skill. It just say that you are good at resilience, of the world which rewards, the people who grasp the fundamental laws that it is build upon. Unless you know some philosophy, our egotism has nothing to do with this. So, here I will invite you to be, the "Best selling version" of whatever you are doing right now. Drop your ego and learn the craft. After all nobody carries anything to their graves.

  • What matters in life is what you do next, no matter what happened.

    Introduction. I heard this phrase from YouTube video and wondered that it is true. And it appears hold fundamental truth about life. "What matters in life is what you do next". Not what you have done, or not what you have planned for the next year. Some people would say, this is incorrect, that our past experience matters and our future plans are the most important. So, let's dive deep into the life to understand whether there is any truth. The loop of life. Forget about the facts, I think this is great news for anyone who is used to procrastinate a lot. Including myself. Think about what it means. Imagine you are halfway through to the semester, and you have been partying all the time, not doing your homework. Now within next half semester you are supposed to study and pass the exam. And what would be more helpful than saying yourself "What matters in life is what I do next". And that would be a good way to kick start your engine. Because as Mike Posner once said, "Every journey begins with a one step". Your past has less value than you think. But we must look deeper. If we think that the above quote is true, it has two meanings, like I said earlier. First is, values we give to our past is far less important than what we assume. If we consider the above case scenario, this is why the work you have done will become relatively less important, if you continue to work better during the latter half of the semester. Even if we consider the extreme case scenario, a guy who has worked minimum during the semester, and crammed 7 days in a row without any break, out of fear, or out of courage, might still get better results on paper than someone who has done work entire semester. If you add some smartness to your work definitely it is going to make a better result. And we do not have to limit ourselves to the University life. If someone has been lazy until they are 40 years of age, what matters is the work they do in the year 41. Which will make a difference to the rest of his/her life. If you have been a drunkard until you are 89 years, what matters is what you do when you are 90, you might die sober, with a smile. If you have failed 99% of the time doing a startup, what matters is 100th attempt, not the 99 you lost. Your future has less important than you think. One step at a time. Now consider the future. You may have plans for next 5-10 years lined up. If you are an organized person. If not, you might just have an ambition. "To be rich" or "To be a Lawyer", to "Travel" or to do "Charity". But, whatever this future plan, has less value, than what you are experience right now. In a way this is exactly what I meant when I wrote previous article about the best feeling you can have is what you are experience now . This is just another way of framing that concept for a practical value. Understanding these steps make me better equipped for life challenges. If you are sad, what will you do next will make you happy at the end of the day. If you are happy, what you chose to do next will keep you happy at the end of the day. Consider today, consider next hour, consider next minute, and you will catch the moment where everything happens right now. And the little thing that you chose to do, once you finish reading this article is where life is. Nothing more nothing less. And I can say, you are a mindful practitioner, if you chose to just do that. At least remember it when you are panicking a couple of days prior to your next exam. What happens in life is what you do next, no matter what happened.

  • Valuation of a company. Valuation of a life.

    I have been learning Corporate Valuation recently. It's just out of interest, yet I see the life of a corporation is the same as the life of a person. These concepts of Valuation of a company are fascinating as I have been on the other side of the spectrum Valuation life, thoughts and generally value of anything. In fact I have written a great deal about Values , in the following articles. Yet will summarize in a sentence. The value of anything remains only in the consciousness of a person at the exact moment he or she is thinking about it. With this principle in mind, I would like to compare the valuation of a company by the method introduced by professor in Finance, Aswath Damodaran who is one of the greatest valuators of our times. He introduces the value of a business doesn't depend on numbers alone. It also depends on the story behind the numbers. Yes, even stories value billions! If you do not believe me, listen to the master himself who is talking about valuation of companies like Uber, and twitter. Generally, in the start of a company, or the young company the story matters more than numbers. Obviously, this is because they do not even have numbers! But more mature the company numbers matter more as they take over the story. Compare this to a young enthusiastic boy with a lot of potential. We would never know where he would end up, as he has a lot of trajectories to choose from. But at 40 years a mature individual cannot go back and change their numbers, or suddenly change their character and become a young potential again. Their story is already written in numbers. Story matters in life, often more than numbers One thing I would like to point out and emphasize is the value of a young company could be much more than the book value of assets. To be truthful, the future potential story of the startup can even double or quadruple the book value of the company. Someone might say this is absurd. But if you apply the above principle of values, it can be greatly appreciated and understood why it is what it is. Even the values of the stocks of a company fluctuate daily mainly due to the reasons that chaotic thought patterns and decisions made by individuals show a combined chaotic value at the end of the day. This really is unpredictable. I am not saying there are predictable patterns. Some intellectual people will get together and exploit these predictabilities to make an income. But it is just like being a rat, and eating out other people's values. Obviously, someone will lose when one wins, in any game. Valuation of a company vs valuation of life More I learn these things; more I understand the shaky grounds we build everything upon. Think about it for a second. Let's consider Google stock. The value of this stock will depend on anything which affects, the individual thoughts of any shareholder. Even the weather in New York is going to affect tomorrow stock prize. If you do not believe me you can ask the inventor of the Medallion fund the former CEO of renaissance Technologies Mr. James Simons. Similarly Panic of a pandemic can plummet the value of a company overnight, If it changes the minds of stockholders. So, I would say nothing is stable as they appear to the commoner. More likely is that everything is unstable, just like a thought in the mind of anyone. Art is not inherently valuable, nothing is. So, the real question is not how to build stability on shaky grounds. But appreciate the fact that with better stories, we might even sell a tunnel in nowhere or a picture on a canvas which cost a few dollars to make, in billions. To understand that no matter how much we search in life, there is a big chance that we will never find a true value. As everything seems to disappear in a fraction of a second in any consciousness. Let's stop it here. Reflect back. I would be even happier if you understood one paragraph from above. After all philosophy is not for faint hearts, but for brave people like you who would seek even if it made one to destroy the image of self by losing its value, like 29th September 2008.

  • Medallion fund and Rat philosophy of Philanthropists 

    Some definitions Medallion fund - considered one of the best performing funds in the world with 66% returns over a period of 30 years. The fund is capped at 10-15billion dollars and run by algorithms made by mathematicians to gain small advantages from predictability of the stock market. It is a closed fund only allowed for the employees to invest. Gold Philanthropist- is generally a successful person who turned a well-wisher for the society. A great example is a rich person who at the end of his life starts to donate whatever he has accumulated in life. Maybe not everything, except for the private Yacht. So, depending on what they chose to give either they can be a full Philanthropist or a partial Philanthropist. Rat Philosophy - is a term given by the great investor Warren Buffet, who believed in fair game rather than cheat codes. Who says algorithm based trading bots are kind of rats, who try to eat some cash from other people's pockets. And as this feels unethical that people behind those trading bots must be Philanthropists themselves at the end otherwise, it's not a fair game by any means. Being a Philanthropist, Is it good? If you are kind of a person with a good IQ, I am sure I do not have to write the rest of the article. You might do a google search on all of the above three topics and get the full picture. It's just how the mind can connect some random dots to build up a story. As an example someone might say I am accusing the medallion fund owners to be rats in the game of market, and they have turned themselves into philanthropists to make up for it. But even in front of a court nobody can prove it, I just gave three unrelated facts and a hypothesis that consciousness can develop naturally. But is it true? Is using your intellectual ability to gain an advantage over the other person a crime, where you can be compared to rats? Then what about copyright laws, patents and intellectual property? On capitalism Capitalism I can agree and disagree on the above. But as the world functions best on the pillars of capitalism, the above statement is incorrect. If the rewards are disproportionate to the effort someone put in, or willing to put in, either by intellectual ability, or by pure sweat, nobody would do extra work. Nobody would do creative work. Nobody would work hard to build up a science and put new theories, if there is no clear benefit for doing this kind of work. Yet we can see that is not the case, for any developed and progressing society. If you do the hard work, you might get paid better. If you do the smart work, or creative work, you might even be paid more. Essentially there is no boundary to how much you will be paid if you are doing the smart work. And that is exactly what is shown by the growth of the medallion fund. But consider what it means. In any game, there are winners only as there are losers. So there is nothing called a fair game. If you play you risk losing and winning. In fact this is clearly shown from our stock market example. There are as many losers as there are winners. So maybe it is unfair for Warren to say that he did play by the rules. And winning long term is more ethical than short term rat philosophy of medallion fund. Instead, a good question to ask is not how much to win in a game, but to assess and acknowledge how much value others have lost during our own winning.  Take Home Message Understanding these boundaries will not make us anything except a little more humble. Even losing a little bit of money or value might make you happy when you realize when someone around the world is going to get benefitted from the exact amount you lost. It doesn't matter, we all contributed a dollar to make billionaires rich a little bit more each year. But if you understand the values, the remarkable thing about that is its really subjective and relative, and it only depends on what you are thinking currently. So I can show you the best investment you can ever make in your life is to give your mind enough information for it to understand itself. And not to play the game of life might be a correct choice at least if given as a single best answer question. With a 50% chance of being correct shared with the answer "I do not know".

  • Sharpe’s ratio and Anxiety

    I have been learning about investments, stock market and human behaviour lately. For anyone who is interested in growing their wealth there are a lot of videos on YouTube nowadays. In Fact it is filled with financial advice that you might find it hard to stick to one strategy. Good luck with that! But as a general advice I would say don't forget basics when you learn advanced mathematics of financial models. When you learn Sharpe’s ratios and variances and Betas you might forget that the values are not in the stock or in business but in human minds. If you forget this you might just become a number man and be fooled by the system at some point. If you know this, at least you will know why you were fooled at some point, by these financial advisers. But here is an interesting fact. Let's look at sharpe’s ratio to understand life. Sharpe's ratio definition Sharpe’s ratio is a mathematical model used to describe the risk adjusted return for an investment. This is a fundamental concept. Any return is associated with a risk. When you have two investments with the same return for a period of time, the pathway they have taken can be markedly different on a plot. Consider the following two graphs. To select the good investment we need to quantify the return to the fluctuations as a ratio. As these fluctuations show how risky the return is. More fluctuations will have less sharpe’s ratio. If you understand the concept upto this point it's good. I will give the formula for sharpe’s ratio below for the completeness of the article. Here’s the graph showing two stocks with equal final returns but different Sharpe ratios: Stock A (High Sharpe Ratio) : Has a smoother, more stable growth curve due to lower volatility. Stock B (Low Sharpe Ratio) : Shows a choppier, more volatile path to the same end value. Sharpe's ratio formula From sharpe's ratio to Anxiety But it made me realise why we behave as we are in society. Consider my article on riding waves of life . Here I discussed how people fluctuate differently although it is the same wave. Consider two people and above graphs show how they behave to external stimuli. Some show a steady response. They hardly change their course of life to external factors. They appear like good investments. Others behave like Apple stock! They fluctuate to stimuli. Their values skyrocket during the day and dip down at night. One day feels good to be alive and the other day is Anxiety prone. But when you consider a period of time the outcome may appear the same. The average return may be equal or even higher than the steady risk free ride. Sharpe's ratio to careers We can expand this idea to individual careers. Consider an actor to a clerk in a private company. The sharpe’s ratio for an Acting career is going to be higher. It's risky. You are going to have parties and shit that makes you feel high, like Mike Posner sang. Next day you might wake up and commit suicide due to stress and boredom without knowing what to do, like his friend Avicci. So for some of the folk who act, risk adjusted return (Sharpe's ratio) can even be less than a clerk!. But it varies depending on individual characteristics. We can consider happiness, fulfillment or containment as the return of life, anxiety and stress the risk we take. An engineer on the other hand has a better chance of having good returns for the risk than a clerk. That is why everyone wants to be an engineer rather than a clerk.  Optimal Sharpe’s ratio for life. But as you can see the optimal sharpe’s ratio doesn't come when we do the work with the highest return. It depends also on our internal characteristics of how much we fluctuate to external stimuli. Or the Anxiety component or the risk. As you can see it's variable with time also. When you progress in your career you might take more responsibilities to make a higher return. You might get promoted in your job. From the outset this might feel like the right thing to do. But it might limit your freedom and increase Anxiety to a level that risk adjusted return is far less than the previous. Nowonder why people are stressed when they become CEO's. Unlimited life. How to achieve Limitless happiness? Now let's look at an interesting phenomenon. Consider a life with zero risk. You do not take any risk. Sometimes we meet these people, in corners of PUBs, rural villages, in churches and In libraries. What do you think about their sharps ratio? When the risk is near zero, the sharpe’s ratio can be very high. Which means proportionately the happiness they feel can be overwhelming. Even having lunch can generate more relative happiness than getting a seven or eight figure bonus. Because the risk adjusted return is better for someone who takes minimal risk. I am sure you had a great deal of thinking and ideas by this time. Why don't you comment on a few and we can have a discussion for aiming a quality life with better sharpe’s ratios and less anxiety?

  • Why Divorce? Life is a tragedy when close up but comedy in long shot

    Why Life is a tragedy when close up but comedy in long shot? This is a famous quote by Charlie Chaplin. Who is the greatest comedian of the era, where the world had been in chaos battered by wars. It is not difficult to understand the thoughts which lead to above conclusion. Which are the tragedies surrounded his life and prevailed during that time. Disease and death were very common. So yes, life is a tragedy in close up. But why comedy in a long shot? What was he trying to say. To understand you must watch a Charlie Chaplin movie. https://unsplash.com/@hulkiokantabak Yes, those Black and white still movies capture the normal life of a commoner. He does find it hilarious to work in an assembly line of a factory . Doing the same task everyday hours and hours. So, he shows what will happen if the production line speeds up. He would struggle to keep up wrenching the nuts 😢 he supposed to do. It's both tragic and hilarious at the same time. To me when i look at his quote with a philosophical eye, I do understand that this is a good way to look at life. Maybe there are more examples to near and far views of life. Let's take another mindful journey. Let's look at a divorce Let's look at a divorce. I am sure if you have lived long enough in the world you may have experienced divorce in a different capacity. You may have divorced yourself. Or one of your friends. Or in a drama, or you are a divorce lawyer. Now that is tragedy, right? Heated arguments mental trauma, separation of kids and financial loses. Anyone would avoid a divorce if they can live happily ever after like a fairy tale. So, life is tragedy for a divorcing couple. But where is the comedy in it? To see that we need to follow the intuition of Charlie Chaplin. You can do it while on your couch and it is similar to a Charlie Chaplin movie. Let's expand the lifeline of a divorcing couple few years either side. In the past they married vowing each other in front of a gathering to be happy forever to forgive each other without any remorse in mistakes. To help and respect and on this day, they did feel that they are the happiest as each of them possessed that one thing that they craved for so long, that is their partner. However , that after years apart we find that this is not true. Things did change and they must be laughing at each other that they were wrong about their partner. And I am sure if we move forward time some years into the future after the divorce. Same thing would happen. They will yet again have another new opinion about their partner without knowing the absurdity of it . Life is a comedy after all in long shot. https://unsplash.com/@aleknewton But what about comedy? There is a hidden message inside of it. Although life is a comedy in a long shot. Isn't it absurd that life is a comedy after all. Isn't it stupid to succumb to cancer, after making trouble to earn a million dollars. The comedy of life is not visible when you are just focused on just a small piece of life. This is the exact point I have illustrated in the previous article about Weak dictators of our century . So, if someone told that he is the most powerful person on earth, I would say, yes, true and not true at the same time. Nothing seems sustainable. Yet it seems so, at this moment. What a better place to start, Life story of Charlie Chaplin himself. For the information of the article, I had to read about the life story of the Charlie Chaplin. And it surprised me, behind that comedian He had not been good at his family life and treating others. Ironically, he had many divorces in his life, one after the other. And after all it is hilarious to think about the same person, who read the above quote seems to be referring to himself. Teenage wives, multiple divorces a sadistic Tyrant? And it seems we are glad to be him being a comedian and not a dictator. https://unsplash.com/@bostonpubliclibrary Let's look back at our lives, when time allows, to make a mindful note of the comedy in it. After all life is a tragedy in close up but a comedy in long shot.

  • Sometimes in life being present is enough.

    We talk about being successful, healthy and productive in life. We think about progress, and growth will bring about the happiness that we seek. All these assumptions seem to be true and false at the same time. Why and how they become a relative truth is written previously in articles about truth. Often there is a grossly ignored path and an approach we can take in life. I can summarise it as follows. Sometimes in life being present is enough. Because the best feeling you can have is what you are having now. This is hard to prove. Yet the closer you are, to the end of your life the more you will understand the relative truth in this statement becomes bigger. Let's try to understand it with a few examples. Life Consider myself, sitting on the couch, on a Sunday, typing out these thoughts. I don't use fancy stuff, like a notepad or a fountain pen. I do not have fun doing it, it's not rewarding like watching another motivational video, or even an episode of the day of the Jackal. But when I look at the experience I know, this has to be the best experience I should expect from life, from now. Only problem that I have is, there is no problem with it. Life seems to flow without any problem at this exact moment. But the mind often fails to understand this fact. The mind compares this tranquil experience I am having now with either past or future. Mind projects a vision of a future, which doesn't exist. And which will never exist. When I relax and type, the mind brings out the memories of the last vacation I went to. I spent a decent amount of time in the east coast of the country, sunbathing and having a swim, just a week ago. And now the mind values this over the experience I am having now. And I can see this is a totally absurd process of mind. I think we already know what it means. These are two different experiences in two different places of the single function called life. Just like apple stock on a good day and an average day having two different values. Why does the mind try to tie them together? It just creates a less value to the current experience, yet when I know there is only one experience available for me to access and that is just happening now, it makes me think, maybe just being present is enough in life. Listen to Mr Warren Buffet. Mr Buffet I watched the Great advice given by the great teachers of investment, Mr Warren buffet himself told, we should ignore the daily fluctuations of the values of stocks that we have invested. Trusting the universe to work for us in the long run. In his case trusting the market. As long as you are aware of the process, there is no need to react every up and down which happens each second in time. I think this perspective is a win-win situation not only for the investor but also for the mindfulness enthusiast. It seems every path that is created in nature is not straight!  Sometimes being present is enough, in life. Now let's look at our mindfulness practice. Let's hope you feel something now. Maybe happiness. Maybe sadness, maybe confusion, maybe anger. There is no point in trying to get rid of this feeling. There is no point hoping you will be happy in the future, when you are sad now. Sadness is what you have now and you have to work with it. That is the best feeling you will get as long as you are aware of it. Once you are aware of this and ignore the fact that your value is at an all time low, you will notice that it will not remain  low as you pictured in the past. It will slowly rise, sometimes it can rebound and recover the values you have lost, leaving you eleated for a day. But still you should be humble, and observe as that is there all we can do in life. Just to be passive observers while maintaining our ethical grounds.

  • Sunset and a Dollar bill

    Picking up dollar bills on your way home Imagine you are walking towards your home after tiring day of working. A wet Monday hard work at office and you curse the society that you're living which made you this kind of a person, yet on your way home you see a hundred-dollar bill for that matter even one dollar bill just lying on the pavement, ah ha someone has dropped a valuable dollar. Depending on your budget in this case of course with a limited low-income budget, imagine yourself what would you do. A sunset There will be a temptation to pick it up once you know the value of the dollar bill, it may be different reasons sometimes you will use it to buy something for yourself sometimes you will use it to give it to a beggar, or even to a charity, sometimes you will invest it for your future to make it grow into a thousand dollars by next year, but the moment you pick it up I would say almost all the people who have a consciousness about the actions would know that is not the right thing to do. The dollar bill or the hundred-dollar bill is dropped by someone who owned it, and who knew the value of it as it is. Of course, the owner will never come to pick it up, he might even not notice that he has dropped this ever. But the problem is, what is the alternative to pick it up? It is just to ignore it and walk away. Just to ignore it and walk away like you have not seen the value of it. Because every action that we do, everyone knows it is right or wrong, the God doesn't have to be there to judge you. Some people would say they don't feel at all, whether it's right or wrong but again I would say they are just lying, from the morning till night, we are monitoring ourselves. Our own consciousness monitors what we do all the time, and with each choice we know it is right or wrong good or bad. Now with this new wisdom you can look at life and understand the process of mindfulness. Imagine you are there to walk at the beach in the afternoon, you see the beautiful sunset making golden clouds and the reflecting sea, it's music to your ears, refreshing for your eyes and cozy and fresh to your skin. Just like a dollar bill what do you do? would you pick it up and try to enjoy it? or would you just leave it alone? It is a choice that you have to make. It is very subtle how we get attached even to a valueless thing like a sunset, like a dollar bill, which can buy you just valueless sunsets. A dollar bill How to free the consciousness. Are you brave enough not to get attached to this feeling or this moment? I think if you do get attached, then your consciousness will feel guilty and if you do not, then your consciousness will be free. I'm not telling you to try to get detached from things. It is impossible to do. But if you understand the guilty is not what you see, but in what you do, after you see. Just do not serve a cup of tea, to the people who are just passing by. Which I'm doing, by writing this all down for you. I'm creating some values which is the world's way of doing things. If you destroy the values, and understand the valuelessness of the things, then that would be the way of a seeker who is searching for the meaning of life or simply truth. thank you for reading.

  • Why absence makes more sense than the presence.

    Imagine a party where everyone is invited, including you and all of your gang. And it is a very big party. Everyone is there, your bosses, your friends, celebrities, unknown guests. And the party is like one of the parties given by great Gatsby. But imagine you are unable to attend this party. At the last moment, something just came up. Now you are unable to attend. Let's say it's not you who is unable to attend. Maybe it's your friend who is the biggest star of the group. Now he is not coming. Can you imagine such a situation? Remember the Great Gatsby ? He threw all his parties yet did not see the presence of everyone but the absence of Daisy. What do you think would happen then? Party It is likely most of them would carry on without even realizing that you are not there. But for the people who matter in your life, they will feel the presence of your absence. They might even talk about it. When you are absent, especially if you are the chief guest, everyone will miss you. But it made me realize sometimes the absence makes more presence than the presence in life. Now imagine the party you are having is the ability for you to enjoy the life. And the members are your eyes ears nose and the tongue. Why absence make more sense than presence? Imagine you have no eyes, what would the world be like? If you can't imagine, of course I have written a whole article about it, which is called a blind man's word . Imagine that you don't have a yes, what is a world without any sound . Can you imagine that? Then you know sometimes it is nice to think about the absence. As we are so much used to the presence that we take it granted, what we should cherish. Imagine having no arms. Can you imagine that? I bet you cannot. I also could not until I met a boy who lost all his limbs . So, when you feel that the life is unfair, the life gives you hard, difficult and unexpected things which you cannot even think about solving. Think twice, you are already at the party, you are just complaining about Beer. When you have this attitude about life, sometimes you don't need anything to enjoy which I would say the biggest advantage. Party You can just walk on the road like a beggar and still watch the party going on in your mind without getting drunk with beer. So, let's be mindful for a day, let's be mindful for a minute. And remember the absence makes more sense than the presence. I can give you 100 examples to prove the sentence, but the best would be leave everything and say nothing. As that would be the best example from the lot. Maybe it is nothing for after all. But we need something to hang on until our minds get wiser with information. I just realized why when Passenger sang about Letting her go, it became an instant hit as he was talking about the presence of absence. If you can't remember look at the lyrics. Well, you only need the light when it's burning low Only miss the sun when it starts to snow Only know you love her when you let her go Thank you for reading.

  • Electrocution.

    I am going to tell you about a little bit of a scary story today and I can be 100% guarantee you this is an actual situation which I encountered. Maybe it was good five years ago. I met a young man who was in his mid-twenties, got electrocuted while he was at a funeral. So, he has attended a funeral with his father far away from home and as a tradition in our country we hoist white flags when there is a funeral. And this young boy with his friends was there hoisting flags and suddenly the iron bar he was holding with the flag has touched the electric wire. And then he got electrocuted while holding this bar. Fortunately, he did not die but unfortunately when I met him, he already had his right leg amputated below his knee and left hand amputated at the level of the wrist. Electricity He was transferred from a local hospital because he had refused to amputate his remaining arm and leg. And when saw him, he was in his tears, and he did not want to talk to anyone regarding amputating. I felt so moved and unable to help him, yet I had to explain him the reality that unless we amputate his remaining limb, which was infected and dying and the hand, which was just a charred, putrefied, dead part, we are unable to save his life. It was essential to get rid of all the dead tissue. And I did I sat with him for half an hour talked about life, shared his sorrow and got him consented for the amputation and he went to theatre, came back with his remaining arm and leg also chopped over. Now there is this young beautiful boy who was well, riding motorcycles, helping his father, ambitious to live a good life with his fiancé. But now unable to walk, even to feed himself he needed his father's help, while he was supposed to help his father when he is old. So, the life is a strange affair, I wonder what we are searching for in life when we meet such people. I am not saying everyone in our society is going to live in such tragic endings. But there is always a risk in life. Before moving further, I would like to know what you think about the incident. At the time of this incident, I did think about it much either. I was more focused on getting him healed and make him walk again on his prosthetic limbs. Unfortunately, there was no support for him to have functional prosthetic hands. They were a poor family. He spent one month in the hospital and after that, I have never seen him again. Yet at various times, when I see or hear a person with electrocution, it almost always reminds me of him. Just like the man who walked on a train and got electrocuted and dropped dead, in India. Someone would say it's tragic, agree that it is tragic. Life Then, it's just a couple of months ago, I have written about Paul Alexander , who is also a victim of such a tragedy at young age but lived up to a full potential of a happy life, with only available resources being a movable and thinkable head. Maybe it's a matter of looking at the life in a different angle. Maybe there is even hope of the successful life, even after such a tragedy. As long as you live, we have to carry our lives to burden of our life. Are you out of dangers of electrocution? I have been electrocuted once when I was a kid, I made fascinating circuit to light up a series of bulbs. It was really nice feeling to build something, as a kid, and I wanted to test it. I put the plug in and got electrocuted the moment I turned on the switch. As I kept the electric circuit on my bare hand, forgetting that it just exposed all the conducting parts directly on my hand. I was a student, but I was fortunate not to get electrocuted with a mega voltage. But am I away from the risk? not at all, we are never away from the risk of life as long as we are living. Negative It raises so many questions when I put the stories like this, just like any newspaper article nowadays. Any news on the TV as it shows so many negative aspects about the life, but there is a different approach all together. And this blog is dedicated entirely for that, which is called Mindfulness approach to life, without thinking about the tragic of life. I can choose to focus my consciousness about this process of moment, where I am apparently away from dangers, resting comfortably in my chair. And having a monologue about life with you, and I realize there is no risk to life at this point. In this exact moment, even better. I could ask the question, what is life and what is the existence anyway. Hope I didn't scare you too much, but the idea is simple. As long as you are not having dementia, where you cannot think about yourself, there is always means to persist life until it comes to its natural conclusions about itself. Just focusing on now will make the tragic of life disappear, no matter what it is.

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